A few things to remember you by

me attempting to rip-off some "28 Weeks Later" cinematography while at Wawel Castle
more Wawel: onward, my minions. I'll watch you fight to the death for me, and maybe have some tea.
moar Wawel! "I just want to feel! Real love! Feel the home that I live in!"
not quite dragon's teeth, but they will have to do
shortly after squatting down to take this picture on our walk to Market Square, I nearly fell face first into a puddle. I am made of class.

This is me right now

Also, Poland is beautiful. All clothed in a snowy shroud. But what else is new, really? I have always loved this country. It’s in my tendons and my blood and other parts of me as well. It’s the country where I shot a gun for the first time.

Paustovsky loved Poland, and Paustovsky and I are practically brother and sister. He wrote one of the best autobiographies ever, incidentally. Everything is in it – Kiev and Bulgakov, Moscow and Gilyarovsky, summers in Bryansk, war in Lublin. His Kievan ghost was the first to hold my hand (squeeze his nails into my palm, truth be told) and tell me to write. So, you know. This is srs bzns.

I cannot get out, said the starling

Am off on one of my bizarre road-trips tomorrow. Already, I am wrung out , and I have at least 5 days of other people’s booze and sight-seeing and work and terror ahead of me. Going to see Krakow for the first time. Well, technically it won’t be the first, but my childhood memories of Krakow are completely nonexistent. It’s a blank space. As if someone once held up a cigarette to a particular newsreel.

I’m so tired. I haven’t slept a wink. I’m so tired. My mind is on the brink. Etc.

I used to listen to the Beatles on the floor of my bedroom in Charlotte. Just like today, my room was draped in garlands of lights year-round. But back then, staving off sleep was a game. I took pleasure in delaying it, painting my nails at three a.m., John Lennon murmuring in the background, knowing that when my head hit the pillow, it would be all the more sweeter.

The contents of my head at present, on the other hand, prevent it from resting well. To illustrate them, here is the wonderful Janet Finch:

…I was tired of men. Hanging in doorways, standing too close, their smell of beer or fifteen-year-old whiskey. Men who didn’t come to the emergency room with you, men who left on Christmas Eve. Men who slammed the security gates, who made you love them and then changed their minds. Forests of boys, their ragged shrubs full of eyes following you, grabbing your breasts, waving their money, eyes already knocking you down, taking what they felt was theirs. – White Oleander. (A book I first read in Charlotte, of course).

Finch’s follow-up, Paint It Black, was also excellent – David Lynch really ought to do a screen adaptation, goddamit – but it’s White Oleander that’s always going to sit somewhere inside my ribcage. The roots go deep.

I like to think I have roots in this world.

Damn, Africa. What happened?

The title of this post is inspired by Lindsay Lohan’s latest fucking debacle brilliant PR move. One that I can freely laugh at. Crotch-shots of a drunk girl are always creepy, but this bullshit? Girl, you done brought it on yourself.

Some time ago, someone I consider a good friend told me that he’s glad that I’m not like every other young woman who’s involved in theater (I just banged out the first draft of my second play, for anyone keeping track). And I said something like, “but of course. I am a unique and special flower. One that only grows on the fields of righteousness. And good behaviour.”

Who the hell I was kidding with all that, I don’t even know.

I think all of us want to think of ourselves as good. Or, at the very least, special. “I’m not like all the other girls that you used to know,” or so Shirley Manson sang. Only it’s not true. The girls are like the other girls. The boys are like the other boys.

I resent the implication that creative people have more of a right to be bad, to be inconsiderate, indiscriminate, morally suspect, and so on. As I wrote last year, saying that “writers have reckless hearts” is just as silly as saying that “plumbers have reckless hearts.” And I still believe in that.

But I am glad and willing to eat crow when it comes to the difficulty of being an artist. I don’t think I began to appreciate that until late last year. Late last year, was when things began “clicking” for me work-wise, and I suddenly realized – holy crap, I am scooping out huge bloody chunks of myself in the process.

Among the things I’ve been doing, plays have been most prominent so far. I recently sat down and read my second play out loud to my brother, and afterwards, I couldn’t calm down. I know all about it, when actors talk about “going to that dark place,” but I only really began taking this seriously when Heath Ledger died. I feel it inside of myself now – this dark place. It’s beautifully carved out. But it exhausting. And it hurts.

When I was 18, I discovered the radical concept of “being outside oneself.” It’s not like I hadn’t tried it before, but I was told, in no uncertain terms, that there is a reason why people similar to me regularly hit the bottle, for example. When everything you encounter in life is a possible plot point, you need to be able to throw a switch in your brain, and feel stupid for a while.

I think the desire to be outside yourself, combined with having to go to dark places via one’s imagination, is one of the reasons why we excuse writers and artists so much more. Well, that and the fact that writers and artists tend to be brilliant self-justifiers, of course. If you’re eloquent, you defend yourself eloquently. And people listen.

Why am I saying all of this? Hm. For posterity’s sake, maybe?

Or maybe I’m just saying this because I am grateful for the friendship of the individual who mistakenly believed me to be better than I really am. He didn’t withdraw it, you see. And maybe that’s what matters the most – not glamour, not noble artistic suffering, not characters that rattle their chains like ghosts in the basements of your brain – but just people who take you for who you are, at the end of the day.

Also, after publishing pieces such as Sarah Jaffe’s “art as labour” story, I just wanted to reiterate one of her points: writers don’t subsist on rose petals. And we are just like everybody else. Not worse. Not better. I don’t want to be held to a low standard. But, at the end of the day, someone else’s high standards don’t interest me either. I am who I am.