Reinforcing the “dumb bimbo” meme, one righteous feminist blog post at a time

…I have more power than a Playboy model in the real world, since my opinions are taken seriously.  All of us would never have this if we posed for Playboy, because as much as the men who make the rules coo and flatter Playboy models, they actually think you’re dumb bimbos and they don’t give a shit what you have to say. – Amanda Marcotte on Playboy & the sex industry.

I normally wouldn’t want to stop anyone from expressing how great their self-esteem is (God knows, we women critique ourselves way too much already), but, and I hate to break this to you but it really needs to be said, many men and women do in fact take people like Renegade Evolution and Nina Hartley pretty seriously. Hell, when Linda Lovelace spoke about being forced into the industry by her abusive husband and being used by the likes of Andrea Dworkin, her statements on the subject of sex-work carried just a tad more weight than yours.

Of course, realizing that and working toward more recognition for women who have actually done sex-work would mean letting go of some of that privilege and authority that “good girls” enjoy, or think they enjoy, right?

Shhh, whores. The feminists are speaking now. (Is this wheat-blond thing working out for me in the meantime, ya'll? Is it bimbo-tastic enough for this crowd? I just need to throw that out there)
Shh, whores. The feminists are speaking now (is this wheat-blond thing working out for me, ya'll? I have to throw it out there, been wondering).

I know that patting yourself on the back for not being a dumb dirty whore is practically a rite of passage in certain upper-to-middle class feminist circles, but a little perspective never hurt anyone. And anyway, it’s not as if there aren’t millions of men all over this world who think you’re a dumb dirty whore simply for being a woman. Or, for that matter, a feminist woman. Particularly a  feminist woman who writes blog posts in which she actually cops to liking sex. So how come their opinions don’t matter, but the standard misogynist view of a Playboy Playmate must be legitimized for the sake of arguing against the sex industry? Because you’re a special and unique snowflake who never let her knickers down for money, and hence deserve to keep your dignity intact?

The comment section is, as always, a treasure trove, some good observations notwithstanding. I did like this exchange between McDuff and calm tongue, on the subject of what should be done about the sex industry in general:

Take it away, calm tongue:

I hate the idea of having to make people’s lives harder, but sometimes things have to get harder before they get better.

Oh. Wow. Even for a bastion of relative economic privilege that liberal blogs inevitably present, this is a hall of fame moment.

And here’s McDuff:

Ah, spoken like a true middle class liberal.

You do know, don’t you, that it’s not the middle class hookers or the wealthy porn stars who suffer most?  It’s the already vulnerable people in the sex industry, the ones who you’re so concerned about, allegedly, who get hurt by bad laws written by people who are trying to legislate the industry out of existence because of their moralising, authoritarian, patronising need to try and save the poor, victimised fallen women.

But, OK, fine, you’re willing to make the noble sacrifice of making their lives worse before they get better.  You blessed, brave soul.  I’m glad you’re willing to accept the sacrifice of being called a lousy fucker by women whose lives you make harder while doing nothing whatsoever for them, under the guise of “making the world a better place”.  Except, y’know, not for them, obviously.  You made their world worse, but their working conditions and safety were a sacrifice you were willing to make.  You bravely contributed to the problem in the hopes that some day, the millennia-old strategy of criminalising sex work and treating sex workers are victims or sluts would finally work.  Go you, you inventive, noble soul!  Keep that up, and some day all sex workers will be miserable, and then they’ll stop doing it, and feminism will win!  Or something, I guess.

Thank you, McDuff. I’d kiss you silly, but I wouldn’t want any of my fellow feminists to think I’m a dumb dirty whore.

War against whores? Answer with heavy artillery!

Renegade drew my attention to this bit of sex worker news this morning. Like Ren, what I found particularly unnerving about the missive was its insistence that the phrase “sex worker” should be put in quotation marks, and the writers’ very obvious and apparent distaste for this line of work. Considering the fact that the writers, Margaret Brooks and Donna M. Hughes, insist that they wish to “protect people from exploitation,” I find all of this a bit odd. Not all sex workers are explicitly or implicitly forced into the trade, and yet those people need protection from exploitation too. They deserve dignity as much as the next person.

I also found the very obvious slut-shaming of Elizabeth Wood to be jarring and not in line with progressive politics at all. How do you get a woman you dislike to shut up? Why, imply she’s Slutty McSlut. It’s an Old Testament mentality and it is both intellectually lazy and profoundly demeaning.

Ridiculousness from Ukraine: possession of all porn is banned

The Ukrainian government has really outdone itself.

Oh, and the best part? You can still possess porn if you use it for “medicinal purposes.” Vague much?

As Gazeta.ua reports in an interview with Evgenii Zaharov, this new law is just more likely to give Ukraine’s notorious police force more room for abusing Ukrainian citizens.

Ukraine’s Rada – messing up the country one dumb law at a time.

Mature, reasonable response to offended Sheila Jeffreys fans

haroldbloomisnotmysisterTake THAT, graduate programs everywhere! See how viciously and unceremoniously I excluded Bloom from sisterhood with me? Now, of course, Bloom and I both agree on poststructuralism, but we run into a big, big problem when it comes to both J.K. Rowling & Doris Lessing, which is what the decision to keep him in the sisterhood really hinged upon. Of course, people are going to say that’s terribly unfair with regard to the postructuralism argument, and I will be expecting a statement from Yale University shortly.

I hope the legions of the offended and the silenced about to descend upon me like instant coffee and/or vodka, since that’s all we seem to have at this joint at the moment.

For context – please see Hexy.