Smackdown Time: “All heterosexual women are rape victims”? Oh yeah?

A regular old feminist is usually pretty weary of the standard clichés: “all feminists hate men,” “all feminists think sex is rape,” “all feminists wear clown shoes and smell like cow dung,” and so on… HOWEVER, Every once in a while you really do stumble on to folks who believe that, and I quote, “allContinue reading “Smackdown Time: “All heterosexual women are rape victims”? Oh yeah?”

Family? What Family?

“Lecture on domestic violence cancelled over protests it could break up families.” A family where violence is rampant is not a family to begin with. Families are based on mutual trust. I’m not saying that people’s private lives should be all sunshine, all the time. Can a “good” family harbour darkness? Yes, to a degree.Continue reading “Family? What Family?”

“So, why do you pay for it, Vanya?”

The following conversation took place while I was on one of my regular visits back home to Kiev, Ukraine. After I left, a number of points still needed to be clarified – and eventually were, through e-mail. The name Vanya is not the real name of the man I spoke with. In fact, all namesContinue reading ““So, why do you pay for it, Vanya?””

Screw the Old 5K! Let’s Run to the Radfems!

I ran Cross Country in high school. Hence the lame joke. My offline experiences with self-identified radical feminists have tended to be very positive. Someone whom I consider a mentor is a radical feminist and a heavyweight thinker and academic (and a damn fine human being). A lot of my own thinking about life inContinue reading “Screw the Old 5K! Let’s Run to the Radfems!”